The young and the young take astrology seriously … perhaps at the expense of their serious relationships.
A recent survey by writing site EduBirdie found that 74% of Gen Zers and millennials check the zodiac signs of potential partners to avoid mismatches—and one in three won’t date someone incompatible.
In addition, astrological fidelity can damage an existing relationship, as 21% of young people admit to being rejected for their zodiac sign.
This interest in star statistics extends beyond the personal to the professional.
A recent study found that 41% of Gen Zers and millennials research the zodiac sign of their potential bosses and colleagues before accepting a job offer.
Remember that we are all a mixed bag of vice and virtue, toxicity and tenderness, good and bad. When it comes to the zodiac wheel, each sign has a set of qualities, both positive and negative, that inform how they function in all relationships.
While birth charts are an illuminating way to understand another person, reducing someone to stereotypes of their sign can be a surefire way to kill one to be closely relatedin.
Anastasiya Pochotna, a dating expert at Flirtini, offers her tips for moving star junk away from red flags.
Read on to learn more.
Look for patterns, not predictions
Pochotna explains that obsessing over whether your sign “matches” your partner can distract you from noticing how you interact with each other.
“If astrology says you’re more independent, ask yourself if that’s true in your relationship. Use it to spot habits, not predict the future,” advised Pochotna. “It’s your actions and communication that matter—not what an app or an astrologer says about your sign. Astrology can provide insight, but it’s no substitute for addressing real issues as they arise.”
Use astrology to spark meaningful conversations
Astrology helps us understand ourselves and others using archetypes, a tenant of Jungian psychology. However, viewing astrology as a point of access rather than an absolute authority is essential.
As Pochotna recommends, “Use astrology to dive into deeper things—like your values, long-term goals, or how you handle conflict. If your partner’s chart says they’re super close emotionally, take that as a opening up to talk about what emotional support looks like for both of you.
“Astrology is a tool to start the conversation, but the real magic happens in those deeper conversations.”
Don’t hate a hater
According to the same EduBirdie survey, 13% of young people have been dumped by a partner because of their interest in astrology. Pochotna notes that being criticized for your passions, no matter what they are, is a sign of a bigger issue.
“It’s about letting go of what matters to you. You want a curious and supportive partner, even if they don’t share all your hobbies. Mutual respect is essential in any relationship, and underestimating your interests is a huge red flag.”
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Keep it light, not literal
Relationships are about actions and responsibility; Blaming your behavior or justifying your issues based on planetary transits like retrogrades and eclipse cycles can be a dangerous crutch.
“While astrology can explain some rough patches, don’t use it as an excuse to avoid real conversations. If something’s wrong, talk about it,” explains Pochotna. “Sure, maybe the planets are a little chaotic right now, but the relationship Yours needs honest effort and communication, not just star-powered blame games. Own your relationship issues and take responsibility for them.”
Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and reports irreverently on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture and personal experience. To book a reading, visit her website.
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